Attitudes are created by the decisions you make, but often those decisions were not made consciously. You have the power to correct poor attitudes if you can change that decision.
Are you worthy of healing? Do you trust your doctor? Does your illness serve you by excusing you from things you would rather avoid? These decisions have a powerful effect on the attitude you approach healing.
To create the attitude of healing, where your inner environment is open and ready to heal: you may need to change decisions you sub-consciously made in the past.
The decisions that answer these questions can sub-consciously create the attitude we have in healing. When those decisions were made, you may not have been in a good place and may not even agree with them now…but they created your attitude.
If you look at what is involved in making a decision; in a split second many things happen but I think the greatest influence is our self image. The self image was developed by several factors, but the greatest was by how people related to you.
How people related to you taught you how to relate to yourself and then developed as you related to the world around you. Your self image is what we consider to be who “we are”. And in the social arena; our self image is how we relate to the world.
Your self image plays a significant role in how you interpret your thoughts and perceptions. In a healing process, a positive self image would make different decisions than a negative self image and therefore create different attitudes.
Sometimes our self-image changes when we are in troubled situations; so if a negative self image made your decision and created the attitude you have…re-evaluate that decision from a positive self image and the decision can change
If you do that in a relaxed state and you have the intention to change your attitude, what you do will affect your sub-conscious mind directly and have a stronger effect on changing your attitude.
You can not change what you identify with, so when you want to change something, you have to free your self from the thoughts you identify with and trust the Wisdom of your Body.
In a health crisis you have to use an inner environment that goes beyond thinking. That is where the Wisdom of your Body and inner resources needed in healing exists. That is also where you don’t identify with your thoughts so change can happen.
Marc Lerner deals with people in a health crisis by developing the patient’s role in healing. When inner & outer resources work together; powerful partnerships are formed. Go to www.lifeskilsinc.com and get a free e-book on Marc’s work.
© Marc A. Lerner2006
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